Frequent Questions — Answered with clarity.

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What exactly is a Surrogate Partner?

A surrogate partner is a trained professional who guides you through experiential intimacy, sensuality, emotional attunement, and embodied erotic development.

Unlike coaching alone, this work involves real touch, real connection, and—when appropriate—sexual contact as part of a structured, ethical, therapeutic-intimacy process.

It is not entertainment.

It is not performance.

It is intimacy with purpose.

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Is this sex work or escorting?

No.

Surrogate partnership is not sex work, companionship, or dating.

While sexual activities may occur, they are never detached from therapeutic purpose.

Scarlet Vice offers embodied sexual healing, not sexual access.

You are paying for expertise, structure, safety, and transformation.

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Do we always have sexual contact?

No.

Sexual engagement is determined by:

Your readiness

Scarlet’s assessment

Clear mutual consent

Therapeutic appropriateness

Emotional and somatic safety

Progression through foundational practices

Some journeys never involve intercourse or sexual acts.

Some do.

Your path is yours.

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Do I need a therapist to participate?

Surrogate work traditionally includes collaboration with a licensed therapist.

Scarlet welcomes this collaboration, but it is not required for all clients.

If you have a therapist, they can help support your process.

If you don’t, Scarlet will build the structure with you directly.

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Is this safe?

Yes.

Safety is the foundation of this work.

Scarlet Vice maintains strict boundaries, ongoing consent, trauma-informed awareness, sexual health protocols, and structured pacing.

You will never be pushed.

You will never be rushed.

Your body sets the tempo.

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Is Scarlet a dominatrix or a submissive partner?

Scarlet is neither and both—

depending on what serves your growth.

Her energy is confident, sensual, intuitive, grounded, and unshakably attuned.

This work is not kink-driven, but it can integrate power dynamics if therapeutically beneficial.

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Can I become emotionally attached?

Attachment is normal and natural when experiencing intimacy in a safe container.

Scarlet’s role is to help you:

Feel

Honor

Explore

Integrate

…without losing yourself in fantasy or projection.

If attachment rises, it becomes part of the work—not a failure.

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Will anyone find out?

No.

Your privacy is protected by strict confidentiality.

No information is shared unless required by law or with your written consent.

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Where do sessions take place?

In a private, controlled, sensual, intentionally curated environment—free from distraction, judgment, or intrusion.

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How quickly will I see results?

Growth begins the moment you commit.

For many clients, the first session already shifts something deep.

For others, it unfolds slowly and steadily.

Healing has its own rhythm; Scarlet helps you meet it.

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Can I book a single session?

Yes—though most clients choose a multi-session journey for true transformation.

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What if I’m nervous, inexperienced, or afraid I won’t “do it right”?

Perfect.

You belong here.

Scarlet specializes in helping clients who feel ashamed, inexperienced, or unsure.

There is no performance.

There is only presence.

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What is the difference between coaching and surrogate partnership?

Coaching teaches you concepts.

Surrogate partnership teaches you experiences.

You learn through your body—

not just your mind.

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